I have been waiting so long to write this post it almost feels surreal
doing it now. It was starting to think that our baby was never going to
come. I was feeling so heavy, depleted on energy, stressed and
bombarded by an onslaught of other people's opinions/comments it really
had me down. So I decided to put my children to bed early last Tuesday
and just do some relaxing things to help my body unwind. I also felt
keenly aware of people praying for me that night, as I was told by a
handful of my friends/family they were lifting me up in prayer. So after
some baking, facebooking, watching some baby related youtube videos,
getting a shower and reading my book I settled in for the evening
feeling a lot better and maybe even hopeful that I could meet my baby
soon.
Then it happened. I woke up at 1:45 Wednesday morning with strong
contractions. I could have just danced, except I was in pain, so I was
all smiles as I turned over to tell my dear husband today was the day
and that I was going downstairs to walk around and just be 100% sure
that this was it. It didn't take me long to figure out this was
the day, so I called my mom to tell her to get ready and went back up to
see what my husband was doing. Still sleeping, he said he never heard
me the first time, but I told him it was time for him to get up and for
us to call for a sitter for the kids and time the contractions. It soon
became very apparent that we needed to get moving out the door, as my
last baby was delivered in 3 3/4 hours and these contractions were
getting intense. So Josh's aunt came right over and watched our other 2
while we jumped into our already packed car (I had my birth bag in there
for 3 weeks now) said a prayer and sped down the road on that wet,
rainy morning.
I labored with Boaz in the car too but this time I was trying to do
more of the breathing exercises which helped quite a bit. Drinking water
in between contractions helped too because last time I was hoarse and
couldn't barely talk from all the yelling, progress. However we were
still 15 min away and it felt like I needed to push, so for the lat 15
minuets holding a baby back was really awful, possibly the worst part of the
whole birth.
We got to the midwife's home in record time :) Thank the Lord Josh just had new tires put on the car!
He
and my midwife helped me up the stairs to the birth room where I was
checked and yep, it was time to push! So after pushing for a few min my
water broke, a little unusual for me as they had to break my bag for the
last two. After pushing my baby's head out I am used to being pretty
much done as the rest of the body tends to slide out but this was a
different baby and I needed to push hard to get the broad shoulders and
the rest of the body out. It was 3:45, two hours after I had been woke
up from sleep by contractions, and now I was holding my baby girl!
Praise God!
Eliora was just jabbering and talking the moment she came into the world! It was so sweet to hear her precious little voice! I had the shakes for a little afterward, probably from having a 2 hour labor, and after-pains but knowing that God brought us there safely and gave me an uncomplicated birth we were overwhelmed with joy! I love those sacred moments where you first get to meet and bond with your baby. Seeing what they are like and who they resemble and just soaking up the whole essence of this new little person who you have been carrying for all this time. We all were rather tired and I was ravenous so after I had a granola bar and nursed Eliora while we all took a little rest.
Eliora wanted to nurse again an hour later, and we had breakfast. After that Josh got to clamp and cut the cord and the midwife got down
to business measuring and weighing our baby girl. Josh was guessing she
weighed about a gallon of milk, 8.6 lbs and my midwife was thinking 8lbs
12oz. They were both wrong she was a soft, pleasantly plushy 10 pounds
on the dot! No wonder I felt so much heavier this time! In all honesty
there was very little difference in delivering my 6 pound girl and her
sweet 10 pound little self. Maybe if I knew ahead of time it would have
stressed me out and caused problems but as it was she was just a
healthy, happy, hungry girl!
Phoebe and Boaz love their new little sister, Boaz just showers her with kisses and Phoebe makes sure she has everything she needs from blankets to stories. This little girl is cared for and well loved.
Our little family feels so complete with our little Eliora, which means the
Lord is my guiding light. I hope the Lord fulfills her name and guides her
thorough her life continually!
Enjoying this season of blessing
The Farmer in the Dell
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