When Stressful Days Feel Overwhelming

I usually like to keep some foods in my pantry that I don’t use regularly but, when I come home late or supper is still 40+ min till done, I have an option to go with. Who doesn’t love instant mashed potatoes? We live in such a quick paced world where we are always running around, working, and going to this activity and that event it is almost an addiction. Especially in the holiday season it is very easy for this to happen without even trying. I find my kids and I both do better if we keep a regular, low-key schedule and save the running for special events. My daughter loves grocery shopping, and looks forward to every Friday when we go. Like daughter like mother; it is soothing to my soul to go grocery shopping, always has been.  Yes, I am a little odd J Anyway with all the rushing I easily get flustered and loose sight of my goal of living intentionally for the Lord and become impatient. In my goal to complete my daily work, I sometimes miss out on the little daily blessings of seeing my little girl sooth her crying 10-month-old brother and say a sweet little prayer for him. Or see my little son reach his chubby arms up to me and give one of his sweet dimpled smiles. Simple, small things that help me to realize the work I do as a wife and mother are eternal.  The Lord is so gracious even when I am not. It is like in the story of when the angels of the Lord visit Abram and Sari in Gen 18. Were the angels of the Lord like, “Come on Abram and Sari! Did you have to go and kill my beef and make those flat breads from scratch? I am hungry, what is taking so long!”  No, and they did have to go out butcher a calf, dress it and prepare it and make some bread to go with the meal. Definitely not fast food!  Can you imagine something like that happening to you? Some special guests come by and your husband invites them in for dinner then turns around and tells you, “You have to go out to the store and buy your chicken, come back, make some breads and roast your meat, oh and make some butter for that bread too. “ This would not fly for most of us, myself included.  Sari did do that, and was gracious in extending hospitality on short notice. The Lord in turn was gracious to them in that he then blessed them with a child after they had long given up on having children of their own.  It is a good reminder that good things take time and waiting on the Lord is better than doing all we can in our own strength.  Having to wait for things in our lives, like owning a home, having a child, starting a business, getting that job or promotion or even a late meal are all good reminders that patience and being gracious to the people around us have greater, longer lasting value. 

Thou wilt keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on thee: because he trusteth in thee. Isaiah 26:3

Perspective is so important. I need to be reminded to keep my mind focused on honoring my Lord, and then those hectic days will not get the best of me. Then is when I find the joy in my every day, and peace even in the craziness of being a momma to two little ones. 

Keep calm and have a box of instant potatoes at all times! You never know who is coming for dinner!

The Farmer in the Dell

A Polish Christmas Eve!

Growing up we always went to my Dad's parents house for Christmas eve. There we did things a little bit differently as my Grandma is part Polish and we celebrated with the traditional polish Christmas eve dinner or "Wigilia" as the Polish people call it. I have fond memories of gathering around the table and getting my pretty wafer with pictures stamped on it of the manger, or as Grandma calls it the "oplatek", and braking off pieces from everyone else's and wishing them a merry Christmas. We had white and pink oplatek, I always wanted to be the one who got a pink and now I just found out that the pink was to be given to the animals, guess we never did that part. Grandma lights the candles, and then Grandpa prays and their is an empty table setting for baby Jesus or a wanderer that should stop by. We enjoy a meatless meal, as traditionally they fasted from meat till Christmas. Dinner was started with a mushroom soup, but Grandma makes split pea as well because some family members will not eat the traditional mushroom ;) we also have home-made sauerkraut peroghi and potato perogi. We usually had lots of different cookies for dessert and then before we all go everyone gets to take home a nut roll to have for breakfast on Christmas day. My mom and I have made the nut roll for a few years now to help out my Grandma with some of the preparations. They can be a little bit tricky to handle but it is something we look forward to.  I make mine with Spelt flour so I can enjoy it too. The others we made with regular un-bleached flour so what ever you have on hand feel free to use.

Grandma Sophie's Recipe Nutroll

Ingredients

• 1 1/4- 1 3/4 Cup spelt flour
• 1/4 Cup milk
• 1 Tbs yeast
• 1 Egg (plus an egg white before baking)
• 1/4 Cup sugar
• 1/2 tsp orange rind
• 2 Tbs butter 
• Dash of salt

Scald milk and add butter.

When it melts add the salt, sugar. wait till mix is just warm.

Dissolve yeast in butter mixture.

Beat eggs until thick and lemon colored, add to the mix, then add sugar, orange rind, salt, and flour.

Knead well, if too sticky add more flour.

Let rise till double in size, about 4 hours, we keep our house on the cooler side :)

Punch down dough and roll out to a rectangle, and spread nut filling leaving a space all around the edge.

Roll the roll fro one side to the other and pinch the edges together folding the ends in.

Let rise again fro another 2 hours.

Prick with a fork and whip an egg white and give the roll a egg wash before putting the oven.

Bake 350 degrees for 35 min.

Nut Roll Filling
1/2 lbs Walnuts
1/8-1/4 Cup honey
2 Tbs Butter melted
2 Tbs Milk
1/4 tsp Vanilla

Grind walnuts in the food processor till mealy. Scald milk add butter, vanilla, honey, and nuts and mix.

May you and your family enjoy the special traditions passed down, as we remember our Lord this season.

The Farmer in the Dell

These are a few of my favorite things!

So now we are in the swing of things again and enjoying our family time during this month to make memories and remember how our Lord came as a child to die for our sins and give us the free gift of salvation. What a glorious gift that is! We don't get into the commercial side of the season; but I do have fond memories of all the baking, singing carols, and spending time with family and friends. So that is what we are enjoying at the moment, especially the baking :) Growing up there were so many different neat kinds of cookies that we only made this time of year, it was something I really looked forward to as a child. There is nothing like time spent in the kitchen with your family, it is a bonding experience.

Now if you know me at all I am not a fan of giving children sugar. We don't buy pre-made foods and if I make a dessert at home it is usually with honey, maple syrup, stevia, or coconut sugar. So the low to no processed options, and I try not to do that too often either. We do draw a very firm line on the high fructose corn syrup, we absolutely do not allow that for our kids. However I do let my children have an occasional "regular sugar" cookie or dessert. Because treats should be treats and enjoyed as something special and occasional. So I made our ginger bread with unrefined raw sugar, and for a batch it is a 1/4 cup for 2 trays of cookies, for a cookie not too bad in my book. Phoebe had a blast helping me make and decorate these cookies and she loved eating one too! She practically danced around the kitchen while they were baking, and that was priceless. This recipe is the one my mom used and I think it is perfect balance of spicy and sweet.

Grandma Rosner's Gingerbread Cookies

• 1/2 Cup blackstrap molasses
• 1/4 Cup raw sugar
• 3 Tbs butter
• 2 Tbs whole milk
• 2 Cups white spelt flour
• 1/2 tsp baking soda
• 1/2 tsp sea salt
• 1/2 tsp each of nutmeg, ginger, cinnamon & cloves

Heat the molasses in s sauce pan till it comes to a boil, add sugar, butter and milk.

Remove from stove.
Sift dry ingredients together in a bowl.

Stir in the molasses mixture into the dry, mix well and refrigerate for 1 hour or more.

Set oven at 365 degrees
Roll out dough to 1/4 inch thickness on a floured surface. You will find as the dough warms it becomes sticky and you may need to add more flour if you are like me and roll it out too thin too many times.
Cut with cookie cutter, and place on a greased cookie sheet and decorate.

Bake for 10-12 min. These cookies taste better with age, so I like to leave them for at least a week to age. If you are worried about them getting stale or too hard just put a pice of bread in with the cookies and they will be as soft as the day you baked them.

Gingerbread is just one of those flavors of the season. Take time to slow down, have fun with your family, make memories and remember that Jesus came so that he could give us the ultimate gift that nothing in this world compares to, eternal life with Him!

The Farmer in the Dell

When Sickness Hits Home

So this week has been a hard one for us physically. My little girl got the virus that was going around and she sick with a fever and sore throat from monday till Friday and my little boy got it on Friday till Saturday :( Nothing tears a mommas heart apart like having sick babies! As a mother, I had to not only think of my little ones health, but mine as well so I can take care of them properly.  So as soon as I realized that my little Phoebe was not doing well I started her on elderberry syrup and liquid propolis to help her immune system fight off the virus and get stronger. I also gave her warm baths with lavender essential oil to relax her and help bring down her temperature. She is really good about drinking her water and without me telling her she drank a 12 oz water bottle daily, but sometimes to get more fluid in, I have given her plain coconut water to hydrate her. She just loves it! I do have to put a pull up on her when I give it to her, and she has been in big girl pants for a while now, because it seems to go right through and she is usually just as shocked as I am poor thing! At night we put Vicks on her feet with socks and some on her chest to help with the congestion. We had lots of snuggles, book reading and waffles for breakfast(and lunch sometimes!) We made it though and Josh and I managed to pass throughout the fire without getting it.
 I was taking the propolis and elderberry syrup too, but in addition to that I was also taking 400 mg of Echinacea and 500mg Vitamin C as well as ON GAURD capsule every 4 hours. I wasn't taking any chances! Also lots of rest helps, so we all had naps ;) I think Boaz was getting a lot of the immune boosting additives in my milk and that is why his battle was shorter duration and less sever than Phoebe's. I really wouldn't wish this on anyone but it does helps to be prepared, this is a bad year for the flu so everything helps! I would highly recommend taking the Elderberry syrup to boost the immune system as it seems to shorten the duration of the virus and who doesn't want that?
It is very simple to make and if you don't have elderberries on hand you can do what I did and order some dried ones off amazon pretty inexpensively. One cravat, since it does contain honey it should NOT be given to infants 1 year or younger.

What you will need is

• 1/2 Cup dried elderberries 
• 2 Cups water
• 3/4 Cup raw honey
• 1 Cinnamon stick

1. Place the elderberries, water and cinnamon stick in a pot and bring to a simmer.
   
2. Simmer uncovered for about 45 min till reduced to about 1 cup liquid
   
3. Strain out berries and cinnamon stick and let cool.
4. Mix in the honey and store in the refrigerator.
   

To good health and happy families this winter,

The Farmer in the Dell

My Cup Overflows!

With Thanksgiving over and the holidays in full swing now I am remind how faithful God is to us. I have found that whenever I am completely satisfied in my current place the Lord has me in, and I am trusting in His plan for my life, amazing things happen and it is far better than my own plans could have ever turned out!

An example of this is a desire my husband and I have had for a while now. I married a conventional farmer and I had never even thought that was going to happen, I mean farmers only make up 1% of the population of America so they are not very common. What we really wanted was to farm organically! Now in order to farm organic you must not use sprays or chemicals for 3 years before the land can be considered organic and you may sell the products as such. There is a lot of loss in that time and no compensation for the extra work put in. In short it is not done very often. The easier way is to get land that has set un-farmed for enough time and start farming that using organic practices. So long story short we came across some land that had been left alone for long enough and the owners did not want to farm it alone so we were able to work out a plan that satisfied booth parties and now we are organic farmers! Our first crop of ancient grains, Spelt, Black Emmer and Einkorn Wheat is in the ground and we are so excited to see where it goes from here!

It is like the prayer of Jabez where he asks the Lord to Bless him and enlarge his border (1 Chronicles 4:10), sometimes we just have to ask, wait and see what the Lord does. We are so blessed to have this opportunity and I just can't believe the Lord opened the door and made it all work out, it could only happen with the Lord's help, we are so grateful for how He is guiding and leading our family in the way He wants us to go. I hope you are experiencing the peace and blessing of being in the Lord's will during this season of your life, there is no better place to be!

With a thankful heart,

The Farmer in the Dell